SIMPLE TOOLS TO FEEL MORE CONFIDENT IN YOURSELF, YOUR RELATIONSHIPS AND EVERYDAY LIFE
Be easy. Be chill. Be low-maintenance. Be the one who makes things work.
A lot of us are taught how to be liked before we're taught how to know ourselves. That can work for a while, until you're exhausted from being a version of yourself that suits everyone else.
WHAT'S INSIDE
80 pages of practical activities, scripts and reflection prompts to help you:
Get clear on your values, preferences and direction
Build self-trust and let compliments land
Say no without over-explaining
Set boundaries you can actually follow
Handle rejection, silence and ghosting
Repair things when you get it wrong
Plan dates, have better conversations and know what feels right
Make friends as an adult, and keep them
Build more community around you
USE IT YOUR WAY
It's a PDF you download. Type your answers in and save them, or print it and use a pen. A notebook or voice notes work too. You don't need to read it from start to finish. A "start here" table helps you jump straight to what's happening for you right now.
SOUND FAMILIAR?
A friend asks if you can help them move on Saturday. You'd planned a quiet weekend, but "yeah, of course" comes out before you've even thought about it. You spend Friday night dreading it, and Saturday a little resentful.
More Ways To Be You helps you work out what you actually want and gives you the words to say it. It's not about becoming smoother, cooler or more impressive. It's about feeling more like yourself in the moments that feel harder than they should.
BUILT FOR REAL LIFE
This guide draws on research, lived experience and practical tools, and it's written for anyone, whatever your background, identity or way of communicating. The scripts are a starting point, so change the wording until it sounds like you.
TRY IT FIRST
Not sure yet? Get Know Yourself First, a free part of the guide.
WHERE YOUR MONEY GOES
30% of profits from every guide goes directly back into developing more resources and events. Over time, this will fund in-person community events where people can come together and share their experiences, plus new guides people ask for.
SIMPLE TOOLS TO FEEL MORE CONFIDENT IN YOURSELF, YOUR RELATIONSHIPS AND EVERYDAY LIFE
Be easy. Be chill. Be low-maintenance. Be the one who makes things work.
A lot of us are taught how to be liked before we're taught how to know ourselves. That can work for a while, until you're exhausted from being a version of yourself that suits everyone else.
WHAT'S INSIDE
80 pages of practical activities, scripts and reflection prompts to help you:
Get clear on your values, preferences and direction
Build self-trust and let compliments land
Say no without over-explaining
Set boundaries you can actually follow
Handle rejection, silence and ghosting
Repair things when you get it wrong
Plan dates, have better conversations and know what feels right
Make friends as an adult, and keep them
Build more community around you
USE IT YOUR WAY
It's a PDF you download. Type your answers in and save them, or print it and use a pen. A notebook or voice notes work too. You don't need to read it from start to finish. A "start here" table helps you jump straight to what's happening for you right now.
SOUND FAMILIAR?
A friend asks if you can help them move on Saturday. You'd planned a quiet weekend, but "yeah, of course" comes out before you've even thought about it. You spend Friday night dreading it, and Saturday a little resentful.
More Ways To Be You helps you work out what you actually want and gives you the words to say it. It's not about becoming smoother, cooler or more impressive. It's about feeling more like yourself in the moments that feel harder than they should.
BUILT FOR REAL LIFE
This guide draws on research, lived experience and practical tools, and it's written for anyone, whatever your background, identity or way of communicating. The scripts are a starting point, so change the wording until it sounds like you.
TRY IT FIRST
Not sure yet? Get Know Yourself First, a free part of the guide.
WHERE YOUR MONEY GOES
30% of profits from every guide goes directly back into developing more resources and events. Over time, this will fund in-person community events where people can come together and share their experiences, plus new guides people ask for.